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A tip on witnessing

“Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity.  Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”  Colossians 4:5-6.

Verses chosen from today’s Bible reading; Colossians 1-4.

I am looking at these verses and I’m thinking that they are only about interacting with nonbelievers.

But on second look, and I pray before writing these entries, I am struck by the word “always” in the middle of it.

Could it be that one of the reasons witnessing is so difficult for many of us is that we see it as a part-time activity.

If we aren’t witnessing to those in our midst, no wonder it is difficult when we try it in new territory.

Witnessing must be present in our normal conversations.  If not, it becomes convoluted and awkward to do.

I believe that successful witnessing requires an understanding of appropriate techniques.  There is a need for, “They say this, so I counter with this.”  However, the skill of being a conversationalist must not be left out.

I must enter every conversation with Psalm 19:14 in mind: “May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart (thoughts) be acceptable/pleasing to You, O Lord, my strength and my redeemer.”

“I need You, Lord, in every conversation I will be in today.  Let me not take any of them lightly.  Fill me with You, I beg, so that every thought, every word, brings glory to You.  Prick my conscience when I mess things up.  I love You, Father.”

I must be Godly in every conversation I am in today.


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Speaking God to others

“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.”  Colossians 4:6.

Verse chosen from today’s Bible reading: 2 Kings 22, 2 Chronicles 18-19, and Colossians 4.

“No Christian should have a dull, tiresome, know-it-all monologue of his faith.  Instead, Christians, who have the most exciting news in the world to share, should be able to share that message with excitement, ability to invoke interest, an understanding of the basics, a willingness to listen and discuss, and a desire to answer everyone’s questions gracefully.” Life Applications New Testament Commentary: Colossians 4:6.

Certainly well put by the commentator.

I want so much to be able to be to express my faith to others.  I falter at the prospect because I trust my own abilities rather than following the Holy Spirit’s lead.

I tend to pre-plan a conversation and that won’t work.  I need to be grounded in what I believe and be ready to give an appropriate response to what comes along.

I need to trust the Holy Spirit to direct me verbally.  It sure would be easier if everyone was at the same place spiritually.  Then one solution would work with many.  Instead, people are at various places and my words need to factor that in.  Bottom line is that I will always need His Words.  Mine will mess things up.

I must be in close relationship to God.  I must listen, walk, and talk with Him all the time so that His Words become my words. Those words would be appropriate.

The words of Jesus were not always well received.  If I’m looking to be popular I will revert to my words.  God’s truth is God’s truth!

“Lord, fill me with You.  Take me over entirely.  Forgive me for my hesitancy in talking about You.  Empower me with Your Holy Spirit so that I will be able to rightly represent You verbally.  The time is short and so many need to know what You did and why You should be trusted in.  I love You, Lord.”

I want His Words to replace my own in every conversation.



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How forgiving must I be?

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.  Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”  Colossians 3:13.

Verse chosen from today’s Bible reading: 1 Kings 20-21, 2 Chronicles 17, and Colossians 3.

What a lofty standard!

I can’t even fathom the Lord’s forgiveness of me.

That I can fathom what it even is to forgive someone, shows that my level of forgiveness is zilch compared to what He did for me.

It is so easy to justify being upset with someone.  Look what they did to me!  They had it coming!

I have often wished that I could collect my words before I said them to prevent saying something I shouldn’t.  It might also be nice to have time to recall the way I was forgiven by God when I deal with reactionary possibilities during the day.

But I don’t have either facility UNLESS I am filled with the Holy Spirit.  It would enable me to be like Him as I react to things that happen.

Since I often react poorly, it is a clear indication that I am often less-than-filled with the Holy Spirit.  That needs to change.

“Lord, fill me with You.  Take over every part of me.  Forgive me for sinning against You.  What love!  Your forgiveness is amazing.  Fill me with You now, I beg.”

What is my level of forgiveness?  Certainly not where it should be by a long shot!



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How to be a Godly conversationalist

“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” Colossians 4:6.

Verse chosen from today’s Bible reading: Colossians 1-4.

Do you have something to say?

Believers possess sure have; the Gospel!  The good news.  We do have something to tell.

But are we able to tell it in a winsome way?  On our own?  No way.  We may win arguments and prove points but without using God-driven words we’re wasting our time.

I am convinced that we speak from a knowledge base that reflects what is important to us.  I know sports.  I read about them.  I think about them.  I have no trouble tuning into folks who are discussing sports.  I even have two blogs (McClelland Miscellanea, Writing Scots) in which I write about sports.

The ease for me in which I talk sports must acquire similar traction in sharing the Good News.  I need to know the Good News as well as I know sports.  It must grab my thought process.  It must drive me.   I must chase the workings of the Good News.

As I write this, I am more aware of why my Good News sharing suffers.  Why I am disappointed in it.  It is a lack of concentration on the Good News.  I must drive myself to be ready to share the faith that is within me.  That faith needs to turn into knowledge and words…..His Words.

“Lord, thank You for Your Word.  I know what I want to be…….rightly representing You.  Help me to get there.  Overtake my life.  Remove the distractions that limit my capacity to share You comfortably in conversations.  I have that comfort sharing sports.  There must be a way for me to acquire a similar comfort in sharing the Good News.  That Way is You.  I beg for Your help.  Thank You, Father.”

Let your words be the overflow of a Godly heart.


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Prepared to serve

“Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.  And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message. So that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains.  Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should.”  Colossians 4:2-4.

Verses chosen from today’s Bible reading: 1 Kings 22, 2 Chronicles 18-19, and Colossians 4.

Good intentions are one thing but actually be prepared is even better.

Going into something without a bit of instruction and preparation is begging for frustration and ultimately failure.

Paul sets believers up to serve God as they should.  Then he narrows things down to himself.

How crucial my prayer life is in following God!  I was confronted in Philippians with the need for my praying to be “without ceasing.”  If my prayer life is functioning as it should be I will surely be more alert to what is going on around me and more thankful for the way God has blessed me.

Paul asks for opportunities to share the Good News and for the ability to present that Good News clearly.  I would want to reverse the order of those two for myself.  Why? I want to get clarity in my head about the Gospel first.  To jump into opportunities unarmed could well cause more damage than help.

“Lord, Your ways are simple on paper.  Forgive me for stumbling over the simplicity and excusing myself from participation.  Prepare me to share the Good News, I beg.  Fill me with Your Spirit this day.  Enable me to entertain thoughts of You without ceasing.  I love You, Father.”

Are you ready to serve God?



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Dressed right to please God

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”  Colossians 3:12.

Verse chosen from today’s Bible reading: 1 Kings 20-21, 2 Chronicles 17, and Colossians 3.

All dressed up and ready to live as I should!

Paul lists qualities that should be on display in my life this day.

No need to suggest that I don’t understand them.  I know what they mean.

The challenge is to practice them naturally.

God knows my motives.  He will not be fooled by insincerity.

My sins are gone and I have a new life in God minus the burden of sins.  I must live accordingly.  That would certainly include exhibiting the qualities in the Colossians 3:12 list.

If those qualities are missing, then I have slipped into a sin-burdened life.  That should not be happening.  If my sins are gone, why would I return to them?  I have to remember that truth.

“Lord, I can tell when I am misrepresenting You.  Thank You for pricking my conscience.  Forgive me returning to sins that have no power over me unless I deliberately yield to them.   I have You.  I have Your Spirit.  I yield to their control.  I love You, Father.”

Does our behavior reveal accurately our relationship to God?

+9 unsatisfactory


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Godliness at home

“Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.” Colossians 3:19

(Verse chosen from today’s Bible reading: Colossians 1-4.

When there are instructions given for husbands, I am all eyes.

Any road to full-time Christian service begins with a personal relationship with God. The next stretch of that road is found in my home among my family.

It is quite discouraging for me that in actual life I see myself getting high marks in the personal relationship with God part only to miserably fail in the life in the household part.

Something is clearly missing in my relationship to God. If my relationship to God was structured the way it is supposed to be, there would be enough of an overflow to seep into life at home.

Maybe my relationship with God is the fair weather variety? I spend quality time with God as I read Scripture and pray but these wonderful times are followed by struggles in the household. I face no trouble during my time with God but noticeable trouble during my time with family. What am I missing?

I think it is fair to say that something is wrong with the genuineness of my love. Do I really love God as I should? Am I filled with the Holy Spirit? I wonder about it because the offshoots of my time with God are negatively revealing.

I must rightly represent God in my midst. I cannot do it if my understanding of Him is limited. I cannot do it if my commitment to Him is shallow.

The recent shootings in San Bernardino brought to the surface the term, “radicalization.” The President said that the killers may have been, “radicalized.” By this he meant that the killers took what they learned and put it into deadly action. I need to be “radicalized” in a good way when it comes to my relationship to God.

My closeness to God MUST produce evidence within my household or it is a fraud!

“Lord, I want the full dose of You. I want so much of You that those around me know that something Godly has happened to me. I thank You for giving me a family. Empower me to be the Godly head of it, I pray.”

Only total surrender to God will make things work at home.



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